Thoughts on Love

So things often go like that.

Girl met guy or guy met girl.

One person will firstly like another more, and will be so crazy about the other person.

Next, when this first person doesn't care much anymore, the second person starts to like and go crazy about this person.

When you're lucky, the first and second person will start to like each other again.

So now, when do you actually start a relationship ?

And why do you want to risk an awesome friendship ?

Why do you even want to risk a friendship with someone over a relationship when you don't even know what the future holds ?

And you don't even truly know the other person yet ?

There is this feeling that push you forward, make you take the step, I guess.

A feeling so powerful, so strong, that makes you know it's the right thing to do, even though your mind will have a lot of unanswerable questions and unknown future.

Now here comes a twist. What if you managed to keep this feeling all to yourself and not let the other person know ? Do you think friendship could last then ? They do say 'you can't stay just friend with the person you love'.

But lets just say you tell the other person your feeling and that person reject you. Now what ? Don't you think it's better to NOT tell at all ? But people do say ' the what ifs feeling is worse than the truth' .

But what if the other person has the same feeling ?

Then you two shall move into a relationship.

Now during a relationship, how to keep it going then ? How everything works ?

What about your past ? your present ? your future ? your parents ? your friends ? your life ?

It'll just make your life so wonderful if things work out well.

But now what if it doesn't ? On what basis do you and the other person feel the need to break up ? But why not solve the problems instead ?

Now if you do end up breaking up, then you ruin a friendship ? So you could stay friends ? But the friendship will not be the friendship like the first time. That's for sure. Now won't you feel regret that if you don't risk the friendship, everything will be alright ?

Now what if the feeling is so strong that after breaking up, you feel like going back to the person again ? Will it be worth it ? What makes you think it's going to work this time around ? If you do think it'll work, then why break up in the first place ?

And there is a difference between love and like. And also there is a difference between crushing on someone and liking someone.

LOVE= QUESTIONS.

TOUGH QUESTIONS.

Which is why things can't be taken lightly.

Which is why this takes courage.

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