Thoughts on Love

So things often go like that.

Girl met guy or guy met girl.

One person will firstly like another more, and will be so crazy about the other person.

Next, when this first person doesn't care much anymore, the second person starts to like and go crazy about this person.

When you're lucky, the first and second person will start to like each other again.

So now, when do you actually start a relationship ?

And why do you want to risk an awesome friendship ?

Why do you even want to risk a friendship with someone over a relationship when you don't even know what the future holds ?

And you don't even truly know the other person yet ?

There is this feeling that push you forward, make you take the step, I guess.

A feeling so powerful, so strong, that makes you know it's the right thing to do, even though your mind will have a lot of unanswerable questions and unknown future.

Now here comes a twist. What if you managed to keep this feeling all to yourself and not let the other person know ? Do you think friendship could last then ? They do say 'you can't stay just friend with the person you love'.

But lets just say you tell the other person your feeling and that person reject you. Now what ? Don't you think it's better to NOT tell at all ? But people do say ' the what ifs feeling is worse than the truth' .

But what if the other person has the same feeling ?

Then you two shall move into a relationship.

Now during a relationship, how to keep it going then ? How everything works ?

What about your past ? your present ? your future ? your parents ? your friends ? your life ?

It'll just make your life so wonderful if things work out well.

But now what if it doesn't ? On what basis do you and the other person feel the need to break up ? But why not solve the problems instead ?

Now if you do end up breaking up, then you ruin a friendship ? So you could stay friends ? But the friendship will not be the friendship like the first time. That's for sure. Now won't you feel regret that if you don't risk the friendship, everything will be alright ?

Now what if the feeling is so strong that after breaking up, you feel like going back to the person again ? Will it be worth it ? What makes you think it's going to work this time around ? If you do think it'll work, then why break up in the first place ?

And there is a difference between love and like. And also there is a difference between crushing on someone and liking someone.

LOVE= QUESTIONS.

TOUGH QUESTIONS.

Which is why things can't be taken lightly.

Which is why this takes courage.

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People nowadays

If you're a really bad person, then it's understandable that people will judge, criticize, comment and dislike you.

But what if you're an already good person ?

Do you still get judged ?

Do you still get hatred ?

YES. YOU DO.

It's understandable that everyone has flaws, no one is perfect, we get it. But is it reasonable to dislike and judge people because of such tiny flaws and weaknesses ? NO !

And there is another whole new section of : Judging before knowing. That's the worst, seriously. But people who do that often don't truly know you though. People who really know you won't do that, they'll just be honest and tell you what you need to correct, right ?

I have this theory that people who spread hatred are those people who need kindness and love the most. They just feel so insecure and they feel they need to let people down to make them look stronger. They have no one to turn to to talk about their problems.

People are just bad, you know, BAD.

But then again, you cannot satisfy everyone, you can't make everyone like you and you can't stop people from judging.

Moving on to another section, this is weirder. People seem to get mad at you for whatever reason without any warning. I think it's the mood swing problem.

You never know why. You never did anything wrong. They just seem to get mad at you like that, out of the blue, one fine day. Suddenly, everything could change. No matter how much good times you have spent together, with just this one day, this one moment, you got resentment. People got mad. Well, surely, there is some explanations ? Like maybe you tell me what's wrong before getting mad ? Can we talk about it before anything else bad happened ?

People are weird. People are mental. I don't see how I could survive in this planet full of people. But I love those loved ones would help me through.

I'm really DONE with all this torture of figuring things out, about why things happen these ways and how people come to conclusions, how is my impression on them, what they think.

But then again, I should not even care in the first place. They're messed-up, doesn't mean I have to too.

But everyone knows it's hard to NOT CARE.

Everyone cares.

This is why we're all scared.

And this is why the planet, the society, the people are all messed-up.


GAHHH !